Red flag
Saturday, March 2, 2019 @ 10:48 PM | 0 notes

What happens when you know someone is the red flag?

When you watch Christian dating videos, they always talk about being aware of when the person who are dating/potentially going to date is giving off red flags.

But what happens when a person you're not close to, of the same gender, is a red flag? As a sister in Christ, I'm compelled to tell her that what she is doing may not be healthy for a relationship, but at the same time, she's not close to me/may not even really like me, would it be too much to stick my nose into her business to tell her? She always airs her grievances about him or posts what she wants him to do for her (e.g. song dedications, going out to eat) on social media, calls him out or asks for other people's opinions about him on public platforms, which does not respect his privacy or feelings. I don't know the guy, so it's not as if I can reach out to him. I do feel bad for him because I feel he's always being pushed around by her, and maybe he's not even really into her in the first place.

???!

That's a difficult conversation.